I like to think that when someone pauses forlornly at the foot of a long staircase in a railway station, loaded down with suitcases, it won’t be too long before a good Samaritan offers some help.
Perhaps it’s an idealistic way of viewing the world, but the bigger point I think is that when people can actually see you have a problem they’re more likely to come to your aid.
If it’s obvious that you’re struggling, it’s more or less human nature (or ought to be) for others to lend their support.
But whilst this theory may hold water, it only does so up to a point.
What happens, for instance, when you’re struggling inside? Heavy baggage doesn’t always take the form of suitcases.
When your load is mental rather than physical, it may not be evident to those around you.
And it’s at times like these that you may need to ask for help rather than simply expecting it to be offered to you on a plate.
Don’t struggle on alone when you need a hand. Do ask for it.