Spread a little thinkiness

It sometimes seems as though we live in a selfish world.

People allow shop doors to close behind them without looking to see whether there’s someone following.

They don’t make way for others when they’re walking along a footpath.

They carry on their loud conversations as though you weren’t there.

And these are just the minor irritations of everyday life.

I’m sure you can think of much worse examples yourself.

So what’s the answer?

Do you fight fire with fire?

Do you become twice as selfish yourself?

Well I think (and hope) not.

There’s a lot of evidence that altruism can play a big part in overall mental wellbeing.

In a neat twist, it turns out that doing good can actually make you feel good.

And I suspect the reverse is equally true.

Those who behave selfishly end up with lower moods.

I also believe that, just occasionally, our good manners can rub off on those who have lower standards when it comes to considerateness.

But even if you can’t make a dramatic change to your world, you can at least improve your own day by thinking about others.

Why not give it a try today?

3 thoughts on “Spread a little thinkiness

  1. Yes! I’d much rather spread a little kindness and set an example using good manners- at the end of the day I feel better about life!

  2. Hi ,
    As my dear old gran used to say ‘manners maketh man ‘ and I have carried this always and have instilled this into my sons. It gives me such pleasure when friends and neighbours remark on how lovely,polite young men they are. I too also try and carry out random acts of kindness whenever I can and the feeling you get when you practice this is extremely uplifting and mood enhancing ……….try it, you’ll be amazed .

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